Projekt Love Blog

Any time you find yourself faced with a question from a woman you are in a relationship with in which whatever you answer will require you to explain yourself you have 3 options:

State your answer and offer no explanation

Ignore the question

Stay silent for a moment as if you are thinking of an answer and then move on to something else.

As you already probably noticed explaining yourself is not an option. The reason for this is because an explanation assumes she is looking for a logical answer when in reality she is looking for an emotional one.

As long as you continue to talk and try to explain your answer you prevent the one person capable of coming up with an emotional answer good enough for her, which is her.

If you have an answer that you would like it to be give it to her and allow her to come up with the reason why it should be that.

Even if her reason for doing what you want is completely different or illogical it doesn't matter because you still have gotten what you want.

More often than not, however, her questions will fall into the there is no good, right, or the answer is already known.

It is these questions that must be ignored and moved past.

Mainly because an answer doesn't benefit you and she knows it.

Ignoring the question just lets her know that you know there is no right answer and that you are wise enough to know better.