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So we all saw it in high school. The jock/pretty boy was the guy that always got the hottest chick. You see it everywhere. Good looking guys never have problems with girls. Of course this leads a lot of people to believe that girls are shallow and ugly guys don't stand a chance with all of the gorgeous women around today – which is entirely untrue. But still you need to ask the question… Why is it, if looks don't matter, that attractive men always get attractive girls....

So we all saw it in high school. The jock/pretty boy was the guy that always got the hottest chick. You see it everywhere. Good looking guys never have problems with girls. Of course this leads a lot of people to believe that girls are shallow and ugly guys don't stand a chance with all of the gorgeous women around today – which is entirely untrue. But still you need to ask the question… Why is it, if looks don't matter, that attractive men always get attractive girls....

Why Attractive Men Seem to Get the Most Women

So we all saw it in high school. The jock/pretty boy was the guy that always got the hottest chick. You see it everywhere. Good looking guys never have problems with girls. Of course this leads a lot of people to believe that girls are shallow and ugly guys don't stand a chance with all of the gorgeous women around today – which is entirely untrue. But still you need to ask the question… Why is it, if looks don't matter, that attractive men always get attractive girls.

Let's break it down. Starting around age 12-13 is when most girls and boys start to experience feelings for the opposite sex. Girls have had a few little crushes here and there on guys, but most of the time they haven't talked to the guy that much and the attraction is mostly based on his looks. Well they go up to the guy and tell them that they like him, and the guy… Well his confidence goes through the roof.

Around the start of high school, those same good looking guys have been getting all of this attention and are starting to dislike some girls more than others, and are deciding that they should be the choosers since so many girls are attracted to them. Their personalities change to cocky and funny, where they tease lots of girls because they don't give a fuck if the girl likes them or not. They find more important things than girls and don't call them back right away when the girls ask them too, or pay them much attention to girls at all. They display value to a girl, unconsciously, and seem to be able to attract any girl that they want. Something sound familiar?

Good looking guys are players because their minds have been molded by females in their earlier years. And now, decades after the elementary days when girls only cared about looks, it is their pick up artist type personality that attracts the girls. Now I'm not saying that women don't like handsome guys, but at the same time, girls aren't as shallow as most men think. If Tom Cruz was a boring guy, he wouldn't have gotten married to whoever that girl is. Same for [insert current famous gorgeous male actor here]. Looks will give a guy a head start, but it does nothing to create a bond or rapport with a woman.

So where do you stand on the scale? Are you a 8/10 on looks? A 6? Maybe a 3? It doesn't matter. If you can take on the personality that natural alpha males and players are able to do on their own, women will associate you with that kind of guy. It won't matter if you are balding because you are the funniest guy out there. It won't matter if you are chubby because you make her work for your attention and you act like you have a higher status than her. The only reason attractive guys get laid is because of their attractive guy personality – so if you can encompass that personality, there is no excuse for you not getting some BOOTY!